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In this article we are going to look at how women and men go about trying to attract each other. It is a emotions that we both are using to get the attention of the other.

To attract a women you have to feel a chemistry between you. No matter about anything else. You can do things to get noticed. Big muscles, money, lifestyle, even being famous, but after your noticed there has to be a chemistry between you and her.

Being attracted to someone is an emotion that is hard to get past. Attraction between a man and a women comes about in different ways. Women will tease a man by being playful. Men use humor to get a women’s attention. Humor is an emotion that brings out a positive reaction in a women when it is done right.

Humor tells her you are a fun person to be around. It is saying here I am and you should get to know me better. A women is great at this because she can flirt and have fun. Flirting ad having fun are a good combination for a women and she is saying she is attracted to you.

For a man the balance is not in overdoing it and coming across as a goofball or maybe even cocky or arrogant. In real life teasing with humor involves making a provocative comment in a humorous way. Imagine a guy pretending not to pay much attention to a woman by not looking at her directly. He says, “I think you might have spent too much time on your hair.” The body language and the comment are provocative and teasing, but rather cold and humorless.

Now imagine the same body language with the comment, “I think if you had spent any more time with your hair, it would qualify as a career.” Then he looks at her squarely. ” Though the result is good. I have to admit that I normally don’t date women who are so full of themselves.” Then he cracks a smile.

That combination of teasing body language and verbal comment with a warm poking-fun kind of humor will often create a sense of strong attraction in the other person. The guy seems provocative, different, challenging, and perhaps fun. Those qualities arouse the emotions that are the heart of attraction.

As you can see if you want to attract a women you have to get her attention. Once you have done that you will soon know if she feels an attraction to you and you to her.