Perhaps we can credit this to its high level of availability and that aphrodisiacs too are affordable. If you have an outstanding budget, you may opt to buy the processed ones like the ones found in drugs. But if you want to add more sensuality into the whole affair, live dangerously and opt for the more exotic ones! Remember, the rarer-to-find aphrodisiacs are the ones that are said to produce the best sex!

Atta Laevigata
This one may put you off, but you should never discredit Atta Laevigata. This can be found mostly in Colombia and Paraguay. It is one of the dozens of species of leafcutter ants in the genus Atta. Ants, since ancient times, have seriously been considered as an aphrodisiac.

Spanish Fly
The Spanish fly, which is actually a beetle, has been used as an aphrodisiac for many centuries already. This is done by crushing the beetle and turning it into powder before being ingested. The Spanish fly is considered an aphrodisiac because it is believed to help trigger the flow of blood to the genitals, making you very much stimulated.
However, contrary to old beliefs, recent reports say that it actually causes irritation and swelling. And, in severe doses, it may even lead to nausea, vomiting, and death. So I don’t think that’s a very nice aphrodisiac. I’m sharing this, however, just to keep you updated. In everything, always be careful.

Sparrows
Sparrows may not be quite rare these days but believe it or not, they were believed to be exotic and erotic birds by the ancient Greeks. They used to mash up the bird’s brain and consume it (yeah, ugh!). The results were said to be superb, exceptional even. But I can’t guarantee if your honey will like the idea. You may tell her it’s just soy. Yum!

Catuaba
Here’s another exotic aphrodisiac. The Catuaba is taken from the bark of a tree, which can only be found in the Amazon jungle (wow! talk about exotic). Of the people who have dared to try it, a whopping 50% testifies to its efficacy! They claim that their libido fired up and were so much more stimulated compared to the effects of other aphrodisiacs.

Marapuama
This next one won’t make you happier. The Marapuama is very popular among the natives of the Amazon region for centuries. Taken from the leaves of a jungle plant, the Marapuama can increase a man’s desire for sexual activity.

Guarana
In Brazil, you will find an aphrodisiac that is equated to cola-based soda products. The Guarana soda is loaded with stimulants such as caffeine. It’s actually the seeds that, when powdered, have the ultimate effect on one’s desire for sexual activity.

Unha de Gato
The Unha de Gato or cat’s claw is a popular treatment in Brazil for circulation disorders and an anti-inflammatory for the prostate, genitals, and ovaries. Its effect extends to the rush of blood to the genital area, thus improving the chances of ’wild sex’.

Cocoa
Cocoa, which is abundant in the Philippines, is the source of chocolates. And since chocolates are an aphrodisiac (actually, it’s serotinin that heightens your senses), that makes the source an aphrodisiac too. It may be used most effectively in its powder form.

Noz de Cola
The Noz de Cola is more popularly known in America as the Cola Fruit, which is the basic ingredient in making cola products. It is known to be a stimulant that increases blood flow. (And this is probably why some people claim that softdrinks are aphrodisiacs!)

Alligator and Piranha Meat
Exotic soups made from alligator and piranha meat may not sound so delectable to us. But in the Amazon region and in Brazil, these soups are the best aphrodisiacs. In fact, in Brazil, the piranha is revered as a symbol of sexuality and power. (Yes, I really did say piranha for sexuality?)

My list may be a bit eclectic but I did say I was going to present ’exotic aphrodisiacs’ right? And don’t fret if I indicated that some of these aphrodisiacs are from other countries. Thanks to the Internet, you can probably order these items - in bulk even - online. So don’t let ’land of origin’ be a concern. After all, do you want truly great, earth-shattering sex with her tonight or not?

Unlike other animals, humans are lucky enough to have imaginations. We can live whole exciting adventures right inside our minds. And the best part is we can make them feel incredibly real. Think about all of those times you ended up masturbating as a teenager what were you thinking about that got you so hot? A real girl probably didn’t have to be anywhere near you, and you could turned on, right? Well thank your very vivid imagination for that.

Maybe back then, an imagination wasn’t such a good thing, especially if your only outlet for gratification was yourself. But now that you’re all grown up, it’s a whole new ball game.

So here’s how your imagination is going to help you have unforgettable real sex with your partner tonight.

While you’re at work today, close your eyes when no one else is around. Now while your eyes are closed I want you to picture your partner undressing slowly in front of you. You can’t touch her, but she badly wants you to as she takes off each and every piece of clothing she has on then stretches out completely naked on the bed, the couch, the floor, the hood of your car whatever location turns up your heat the highest.

If you don’t start feeling a physical reaction from that little fantasy, I’d be very surprised. But don’t dwell on it and do absolutely nothing about that heart pounding desire rushing through your body. Just fight it enough so you can do your work, but definitely don’t take matters into your own hands if you know what I mean.

A few hours before you head home, close your eyes again. This time picture your partner and you acting out your hottest fantasy. Maybe she’s been speeding, and you’re the stern police office who needs to teach her a lesson. Maybe she’s a stranger you’ve just met in a smoky bar whose name you don’t even know. Maybe you catch her with another sexy woman, and they both ask you to join in. It doesn’t matter what fantasy you have. What matters is that you picture every single detail of that fantasy coming true from the moment you first touch her moist skin, to the second when you penetrate her body, and to those final moments of your climax. Picture it and feel it through your whole entire body.

As soon as you finish your fantasy, call her up on the phone wherever she is. Tell her in the most provocative way you can what you want to do to her when you get home. Describe how you want to touch her, what positions you want to try, and more. You don’t have to share the details of your fantasy with her but do share with her everything you can think of about the reality you want to share with her soon.

From the time you leave work until you reach home (or her house), don’t stop thinking about that fantasy but absolutely keep your hands off yourself. It’s going to be very hard to resist since you’re going to be incredibly horny by this time, but the pay off is going to be well worth all of your self-control.

When you see her, don’t hesitate. Just start doing exactly what you promised her on the phone. Depending on your partner, she may or may not already be ready for you. Some women fantasize about their men all day long, and your call may have been just enough to get her all heated up, too. If not, then now is the time to dazzle her with your incredible foreplay skills. But don’t forget to keep talking dirty to her and telling her how much you’ve been wanting her all day. That’s sure to get her just as hot as you are.

Then, well, then I think you know what to do next. If not, just think back to your earlier fantasy and follow its lead.